I had a couple bumps in the road in the beginning of the year -- like dating a guy who was great aside from his lack of attentiveness, only to start dating someone else who was all about me but picked fights constantly.
But by June I was finally single again and found my stride -- and developed my lowest tolerance for bullshit yet. Now when a guy acts like a douche, he hears about it and gets cut from the roster. I know what I'm worth and have going for me and don't feel the least bit compelled to settle for less. So if you want to act like a dick -- to a girl who's fun and low-maintenance, likes beer and football, and can cook and mentally keep up with you -- then suit yourself. Next! (I'm certainly not perfect, but confidence is key. Get some.)
In 2012: Keep on my current trajectory. I've never been happier and a lot of that has to do with being single. If someone isn't perfect for you, you're wasting your time. There are enough things in life that can be mediocre -- love shouldn't be one of them.
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Couldn't agree with you more on this point. Its important to value yourself appropriately, feel worthwhile and have a partner that is a reflection of your own worth. Don't ever settle and keep being you.
ReplyDeleteThanks Brian! Your advice sounds very Atlas Shrugged-ish, haha. I totally agree though. It's all about being yourself and being true to it.
ReplyDeleteTo help do that, I actually try to make guys uncomfortable on dates by bringing up certain topics. Just for shits and giggles and to see if they can hang. Last night I was on a first date and we talked about everything from politics, to religion, to abortion, to going to raves. So nice when a guy can handle the sass and appreciates my gratuitous use of the word "fuck".
I like this one. Everyone should feel this way. Really it is not like anyone is perfect but no one should settle for less that what they are worth or expect.
ReplyDeleteAmen! And it's finding someone who complements you, flaws and all. I wish more people felt empowered enough to be alone instead of staying in a dysfunctional relationship because it's comfortable.
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